Despite what folks say, no, you didn’t create me personally gay. I’m sorry things moved the way in which they performed; I’d no clue who I happened to be and that I necessary to rebuild a life for me from scratch. Now, I’m
more happy than in the past
and even though we don’t wind up together, i’ve you to give thanks to for this in several ways.

1. 
   Thank you so much for letting myself crash in your couch once I arrived.
   
   Few people like going folks know you did that for me personally.
   Recognizing I Became gay
   after which voicing that understanding to the world was hard, but I experienced to let get of 23 decades really worth of lays and start embracing exactly who i truly was. When this occurs, I didn’t understand which place to go. Citizens were crazy at me personally but we realized I happened to be doing just the right thing because for a change, I becamen’t crazy at my self. You didn’t have so that your baby gay ex-girlfriend accident on the couch that summertime, nevertheless performed. Thanks a lot.
2. 
   Many thanks for encouraging my personal lady-seeking ventures rather than thinking it absolutely was strange.
   
   Once you understood I could in fact get girls, you started initially to take on me personally but never did mind sharing your wardrobe. Whenever I arrived on the scene, I stole any bro-tanks and snapbacks like a real (baby) Miami lesbian. It thought thus correct. You could have thought it was uncomfortable or unacceptable to
   be my wingman
   nevertheless did not and I also enjoy it.
3. 
   Thank you when deciding to take each one of my personal
   post-coming out
   Instagram photos.
   
   I’ve some of the biggest solitary gay lady pictures of all time from 2015, such as the certainly one of me at South seashore chillin’ back at my skateboard and flexing within my freshly handed-down bro-tank. I usually feel just like an a-hole asking for my photo taken and a lot of my buddies hate it, nevertheless completely encourage a well-angled IG-worthy image and had been pleased to assist me take it.
4. 
   Thank you for letting me to check out ladies in college.
   
   We had been still with each other after that and also you absolutely recognized I happened to be totally gay before used to do. You poked fun of me personally about any of it therefore happened to be appropriate, but I never would like you to feel like less of a human as a result of my real sexuality. One lady you assisted myself carry on a romantic date with was fantastic.
   We vibed well
   but she didn’t see me a great deal from then on because you and I also had been collectively. I’ll admit that i possibly could have effortlessly fallen deeply in love with the girl and ended it along with you, saving you years of drama and mess, but that’s not really what occurred and she kept me personally experiencing puzzled. You were here for me personally throughout all of it and I’ll often be pleased.
5. 
   For those times you assisted me coordinate a getaway plan for Tinder times, cheers.
   
   After I arrived, I got no clue the way to get a female’s interest. Software like Tinder, Her, and Bumble gave me a place to train. I always believed less dangerous happening a romantic date realizing that you realized where I became and exactly what my personal ideas had been. Whenever we noticed this 1 girl from Boca was actually off her rocker, blowing upwards my phone chatting crazy, we talked loads regarding it like two close friends would. Because hard as it need to have been so that you can see me personally
   start over without your
   , you remained my buddy.
6. 
   Many thanks for introducing me to marijuana.
   
   Both of us spent my youth in rigorous homes and in addition we’d only already been circulated into the wild when we came across. We were on our personal the very first time, undertaking all of the partying. Whenever college life was actually more than, the weed stayed beside me. That environmentally friendly leaf spared my sanity and made the way into my entire life much more of a medicinal help than a party favor, specially when I worked through my personal problems encompassing my personal sexuality. I am therefore happy for weed while the simple fact that you launched us to it in college.
7. 
   Tell your mother and grandma we stated many thanks for assisting myself learn Spanish.
   
   They may be some of the finest teachers. I am nevertheless never as fluent just how I want to be, nevertheless they connected me with parts of my personal society that I’d already been craving become an integral part of. Latinxs constantly scold me personally for not being proficient and it’s really embarrassing frankly, but those two ladies never ever forced me to feel inferior for learning. Not only that, however it makes me a large amount hotter on females we date. Win-win.
8. 
   Many thanks for merely overall assisting myself become an extremely happy, life-loving, woman-loving girl.
   
   Screw anybody who enables you to feel around because your ex-girlfriend is actually gay. I have loved females since very early adolescence and I also take all the credit to be gay. But because I’ve dropped crazy about my personal rebirth these finally several years, i could have healthier and rewarding relationships. I believe all of our fallout had been a rock-bottom for both people, but i must say i hope your own development skyrocketed just as mine has actually.
   You have earned it
   .